Posts in Fashion
Behind the Brand: The Story and Inspiration Behind Notthenormnextdoor

Welcome to Notthenormnextdoor, a space where individuality, style, and confidence come together! What started as a passion project during my time at Morgan State University has grown into a blog and Etsy store celebrating authenticity and creativity.

Notthenormnextdoor is more than a name, it’s a mindset for women who challenge expectations and embrace their uniqueness. From fashion tips to curated pieces in my Etsy shop, every detail reflects elegance with everyday ease.

This is just the beginning, and I’m so excited to keep growing, sharing, and inspiring. Thank you for being part of this journey, let’s keep redefining what it means to be the girl next door!

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Fashion For Thought - Sized Out: Why Vanity Sizing Makes Shopping So Stressful

"Let’s Be Real: Why Vanity Sizing is Sabotaging Your Confidence (and How to Take Back Control)"

Shopping for clothes should be fun, right? But if you’ve ever found yourself stuck in a fitting room with a zipper that won’t budge or a button that refuses to close, you know how quickly excitement can turn into self-doubt. The truth is, it’s not you, it’s the numbers.

Vanity sizing has quietly taken over our closets and confidence for years. One store’s size 8 feels like a dream, while another’s feels two sizes too small. It’s confusing, frustrating, and makes shopping feel like a chore instead of a treat. But here’s the thing: you are not defined by a tag.

In this blog post, we’re breaking down what vanity sizing really is, how it’s been shaping the way we see ourselves, and why it’s time to flip the script. We’ll also share tips to help you shop smarter, embrace your unique body, and reclaim the joy of finding pieces that truly fit you.

Because at the end of the day, confidence isn’t about a number, it’s about how you feel in your own skin. Ready to take back control? Let’s dive in.

Read the full post and join the conversation: Has vanity sizing ever left you questioning your worth? Share your thoughts in the comments, I’d love to hear your story!

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Exploring Christian Dior's Exhibit "Designer of Dreams " at the Brooklyn Museum

Exploring Christian Dior’s “Designer of Dreams” Exhibit

I had the chance to visit the “Christian Dior: Designer of Dreams” exhibit at the Brooklyn Museum during its final week. The showcase featured over 300 garments, sketches, and accessories, celebrating 70 years of Dior’s iconic history.

Although the exhibit has ended, I captured the experience in a vlog on my YouTube channel—plus a fun stop at Sweet Chick and shopping in Soho. Check it out!

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